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As Meghan Markle celebrates her forty fifth birthday, one royal author argues the Duchess of Sussex’s exit from royal life caused “very serious damage” to the monarchy.
“I believe that the rupture in the family that saw Meghan and Harry go to the United States has done very serious damage to the monarchy,” Catherine Mayer, who penned “Divide & Rule,” advised Fox News Digital.
“But to say that is not to say that I blame them for what happened,” she mentioned. “It’s often taken as a criticism: ‘Look what they’ve done to the monarchy.’ I think this has been very painful for everybody and for the institution, but you need only look at the latest polling on the popularity of the monarchy to see that it is losing ground.”
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Meghan, Duchess of Sussex speaks onstage through the 2025 TIME100 Summit at Jazz at Lincoln Center on April 23, 2025, in New York City. The “Suits” alum’s birthday is Aug. 4. (Jemal Countess/Getty Images for TIME)
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex stepped again as senior royals in 2020, citing intrusive British media protection and a scarcity of assist from the palace. After transferring to California, they aired their grievances in interviews and documentaries. Harry’s 2023 memoir, “Spare,” additional strained his relationship with the family.
In July, the previous American actress had deliberate to accompany her husband throughout a number of engagements on his return to the U.Okay. However, safety issues prevented Meghan and their two kids, Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet, from making the complete journey.
“Divide & Rule” by Catherine Mayer is out now. (HQ)
While the Sussexes had a personal assembly with King Charles and Queen Camilla on July 10, marking the primary time since 2022 that Meghan had returned to England, she did not make any public appearances.
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The couple misplaced their taxpayer-funded safety after they stepped down as working royals. The Duke of Sussex has lengthy sought to have it reinstated, citing issues for his family’s security.
Mayer argued that, in keeping with U.Okay. polls, the royal family has misplaced recognition primarily as a consequence of Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor, who was stripped of his princely title following his controversial relationship with late intercourse offender Jeffrey Epstein. However, she believes that “undoubtedly,” the Sussexes had a capability to attach with youthful populations in a means that’s “not really there with the rest of the family.”
Office employees in London watch the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s “Harry & Meghan” docuseries on Netflix on Thursday, Dec. 8, 2022. (Jonathan Brady/PA Images through Getty Images)
“The only ones who can potentially do it are Kate and William, and they’re more of a small ‘c’ conservative in their approach,” mentioned Mayer, referring to the Prince and Princess of Wales.
Prince William, Prince of Wales, Catherine, Princess of Wales, Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex depart after escorting Queen Elizabeth II’s coffin to Westminster Hall from Buckingham Palace for her mendacity in state on Sept. 14, 2022, in London. (Emilio Morenatti – WPA Pool/Getty Images)
“They’re young, but they’re in their 40s,” she mentioned. “Their children are really young. And there’s nobody in between George and his parents, William and Kate, to capture the imagination of younger audiences. Harry and Meghan are basically the same age, but they had this appeal, a much broader appeal, and that’s been lost now.”
Royal broadcaster Ian Pelham Turner echoed that view, noting that family divisions stay unresolved regardless of latest indicators of reconciliation.
Prince Harry and actress Meghan Markle pose throughout an official photocall to announce their engagement at The Sunken Gardens at Kensington Palace in London, England, on Nov. 27, 2017. (Chris Jackson/Getty Images)
“I feel there are major cracks in the royal family over Meghan and Harry, especially between King Charles and Prince William, who I believe are at loggerheads over the couple, culminating in the recent private meeting at Highgrove, leaving William blindsided about the meeting. Now, with Harry able to use Buckingham Palace again when he returns, it could be a breakthrough for Meghan and a heart-piercing wound for William.”
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Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, meets volunteer first responders from Bondi Surf Bathers’ Life Saving Club throughout a go to to Bondi Beach on Day 4 of the royal journey to Australia on April 17, 2026, in Sydney. (Jonathan Brady-Pool/Getty Images)
While Meghan’s relationship with King Charles reportedly softened following their non-public family reunion this summer time, a number of reviews proceed to explain her ties with William and Kate as distant, with little proof the broader royal rift has absolutely healed.
Prince Harry and Meghan Markle take pictures with sufferers whereas visiting The Royal Children’s Hospital in Melbourne on April 14, 2026. (Joe Armao/The Age through Getty Images)
“In my book, I also examine the bullying allegations made against Meghan,” mentioned Mayer. “One of the problems was that they surfaced at exactly the time of the 2021 Oprah Winfrey interview. I think that made a lot of people suspect this was done to undercut anything Meghan might say in the interview. I’d actually been hearing about friction in the palace for a very long time before the story surfaced. As I explain in the book, that doesn’t necessarily mean we’re talking about bullying, but we’re definitely talking about real friction there.”
Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex attend The Endeavour Fund Awards at Mansion House in London on March 5, 2020. Soon after, they moved to California. (Samir Hussein/WireImage)
“We’re talking about people who were very bruised by the experience, which includes her as well,” Mayer continued. “But the fact is, there were real frictions between the brothers, William and Harry, as well as between the women and within the palace system. I don’t think Meghan really understood that the monarchy will always give preference to the monarch and the immediate heir. And its members get very nervous when somebody feels bigger and more glamorous than the institution.”
Meghan, Duchess of Sussex launches the Smart Works capsule assortment on Sept. 12, 2019, in London, England. (Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images)
“The last thing they wanted to do was make her into some big star,” Mayer added.
Turner famous that Meghan hasn’t been the one one to expertise struggles with “The Firm.”
Meghan, Duchess of Sussex arrives for The Paley Center for Media gala honoring actor and director Tyler Perry on the Beverly Wilshire Hotel on Dec. 4, 2024. (AFP through Getty Images)
“Outsiders are accepted, provided they do not become more powerful or overshadow family members,” he mentioned. “In my time, Charles used to hate being overshadowed by Princess Diana at walkabouts. I believe this was part of the reason for the breakup. I feel palace employees and members of the royal family could see Meghan’s charm was making her into another Diana in waiting.”
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Britain’s Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, depart St. George’s Chapel at Windsor Castle on May 19, 2018. (Ben Stansall – WPA Pool/Getty Images)
Still, British royal expert Hilary Fordwich mentioned errors made by the Sussexes can’t be missed and have contributed to their estrangement from the royal family.
“Harry and Meghan didn’t just make a silly mistake,” Fordwich advised Fox News Digital. “They have undertaken a fundamentally damaging, deliberate strategy to undermine the royals, which is unforgivable. The Firm was most welcoming to her, bent the rules for her, made exceptions for her, but she thwarted it all. She didn’t want to either learn or accept advice. King Charles and Prince William now have a narrower, more disciplined monarchy as a result.”
Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, arrive to attend the annual Commonwealth Day Service at Westminster Abbey in London on March 9, 2020. (Dan Kitwood/Getty Images)
“Yes, things could have been very different if Meghan had been dedicated to duty and not to herself and her own aggrandizement,” mentioned Fordwich.
Meghan Markle is seen right here being interviewed by Oprah Winfrey on March 8, 2021. (Chris Jackson/Getty Images)
British broadcaster and photographer Helena Chard additionally advised Fox News Digital that the key to being a profitable member of the British royal family is to adapt rapidly.
“The House of Windsor may appear rigid, but it has run like clockwork and survived through history,” mentioned Chard. “The one thing people marrying into The Firm have to learn is to adapt. Both Princess Catherine and Meghan came in as outsiders. But one chose to learn the institution. The system is tough, but the system also gave Meghan support. The system can’t save someone who won’t play ball. The institution expects sacrifice before platform.”
Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, attends an Invictus Games Friends and Family reception hosted by the City of The Hague and the Dutch Ministry of Defence at Zuiderpark on April 15, 2022, in The Hague, Netherlands. (Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images)
“Harry himself also talked about leaving royal life for years. Meghan gave him that push. Better handling could have delayed it, but I don’t think it would have prevented it.”
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Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, Duke and Duchess of Sussex, depart a service of thanksgiving for the reign of Queen Elizabeth II at St. Paul’s Cathedral in London on June 3, 2022, throughout Platinum Jubilee celebrations marking the monarch’s 70 years of service. (Matt Dunham – WPA Pool/Getty Images)
Mayer identified that Meghan was going through an uphill battle from the very starting.
“When I was writing this book, I really did go back and challenge my own assumptions about whether Meghan could have ever made a go of it,” mentioned Mayer. “And I concluded that it was highly unlikely, and not her fault — or certainly not entirely her fault. One of the things people always say to me is, ‘Of course she Googled Harry before they started dating. Of course, she knew about it.'”
Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex, attends the Balenciaga Womenswear Spring/Summer 2026 present throughout Paris Fashion Week on Oct. 4, 2025, in Paris, France. (Getty Images for Balenciaga)
“I’ve been covering the monarchy for a very long time. I’m also the biographer of Charles, the man who is now King. I’ve spent a lot of time behind the scenes. Even after all the time I’ve spent there, I’m still surprised by the strangeness of the culture and how unlike any other culture it is.”
From left: Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, Prince William and Princess Catherine watch a Royal Air Force flypast from the balcony of Buckingham Palace on July 10, 2018, in London. (Max Mumby/Indigo/Getty Images)
Mayer additionally recalled when Meghan obtained criticism for mimicking how she curtsied to the late Queen Elizabeth II within the Netflix docuseries “Harry & Meghan.” However, audiences missed the purpose, she mentioned.
“How weird it is to have a family where, even in private, you not only curtsy to the monarch, but you also follow an order of precedence,” mentioned Mayer. “How would anybody be prepared for that? The monarchy is essentially a medieval institution with some modern features grafted onto it.”
Meghan, Duchess of Sussex attends the 2026 Fifteen Percent Pledge Fundraising Gala at Paramount Studios on Feb. 7, 2026, in Los Angeles. (Gilbert Flores/Variety through Getty Images)
Chard mentioned “the damage has been done” following Meghan and Harry’s departure. She famous the royal family has “moved on,” prioritizing the long run. While there’ll at all times be hope for reconciliation, she mentioned, it can take time on all sides.
“Trust takes years to rebuild,” she mentioned.
