Popular singer, Tems has opened up about her expertise in a toxic relationship the place her companion was “obsessive and possessive.”
Speaking in a candid interview with media persona, Angie Martinez, the Essence crooner mentioned the character of the relationship was opposite to her perception, stressing that she believes {that a} wholesome relationship is about partnership, not possession.
Tems mentioned toxic relationship is draining as a result of typically the toxic companion will not be even conscious that they’re toxic.
“I have experienced love where I thought it was love but it was more like when someone is trying to own you. They think that they own you. And that’s not love.
“Love is not obsession. And it is not possession. I can’t own another human being. Love is when both of you become one person.
“We don’t own each other, we are each other. I feel everyone has experienced toxic love with someone who doesn’t even know that they are toxic.
“They say they love you but they don’t know that they don’t even love you. Because you can’t love someone you feel you own,” she expressed.
